Divorce: Easing the Strain on the Child

The lack of stability and uncertainty about the future can be very frightening for any child. They may wonder whether their parents will still love and care for them in the new situation. Depending on the child’s age, a child's emotions can range from extreme fear of abandonment, to anger and blame directed towards one or both parents. Given these facts, the best thing parents can do is to make clear their continued love and willingness to care for the child.

As a parent, you can assist in bringing custody disputes to the quickest possible resolution. The sooner your child knows what his or her future living situation will be, the sooner the child will begin to reconstruct their world and regain some stability. If at all possible, you and your spouse should come to an agreement regarding custody, visitation and support for the child.