It’s a good idea if both parties can come to an agreement with regard to custody of children.  The couple should consider what is in the best interest of the children.  Often people believe that the courts favor one parent over the other.  This is not true.  If the parents cannot come to an agreement, they will present evidence to the courts at a court hearing and the judge will make a determination as to who will be awarded custody.  In many instances, the court requires custody evaluations by an evaluator to assist the court in its decision.